You may ask yourself why you can’t your dream job and say: how to start from the beginning? / I chose many paths, and I failed. / I inherited nothing.
But I am ready to tell you that you can get your dream job anyway.
Many successful people have started from the beginning. Each of them had talents, favorite subjects and walked on different paths and their wealth is not the same either. But they all had one thing in common:
Most of them started from nothing. We have to learn from them.
It’s right that they started from nothing but not the absolute nothing.
They have started to walk on their path to wealth and success with a strong will and passionate. A passionate that won’t let you sleep, and wonder for no reason and waste your time.
If we see the wealthiest people, they are the same ones who created Facebook, Microsoft, Google, eBay, etc. and it may be interesting for you to know that most of them quit studying or didn’t have good scores at school.
When we are interested in a subject, we learn it faster than in a classroom, but teachers can’t teach us that fast because there are other students there, ready to complain about things like this. A teacher has to adapt her teaching speed for all students, Fast-learner, and slow-learner.
That’s why we have to:
Rely on ourselves to learn.
Go to a bookstore today and search for the books related to your ideal job. Try to drown into them and learn all they have to say.
As soon as you start to learn some particular skills, you won’t need others’ support and encouragement to get your dream job.
Know the obstacle and remove it
The main obstacle to reach your goal is confusion. It means when you are not sure of what you want and it is going to work or not.
Researches have shown that our brain considers incomplete ways as failures.
So if you want to reach your purpose, try to approach it all the time otherwise confusion overcomes you, and you will be disappointed.
Try things that help you reach your goal every day. If it’s hard for you to believe, it’s Okay!
You need to be patient.
I say all your thoughts about your goal and all the actions you take toward it will have an impressive effect on your purpose.
Now I can explain why you try sometimes, and you won’t get what you want and how you can solve this problem.
Why some wishes and hopes make goal conflict?
You have to think straight. Analyze the thoughts that contradict your goals and delete some of them.
For example, imagine someone who wants to be a speaker and sleeps and eats all day all week. The wish contradicts the goal. One of them is being lazy, and the other is being a speaker and trying so hard. The wisher has to delete one of them and choose the other.
How not to be afraid of risks?
People don’t like to come out of their comfort zone. People are afraid to lose something. That’s why they are scared of changes and avoid making decisions.
Imagine you are not happy with your current situation and you know if you keep living in it, nothing is going to change. On the other hand, you are afraid to lose what you already have: this simple job that earns you enough to live and these friends that you don’t entirely trust.
So what you unconsciously do is not to deciding at all.
All the people who read these kinds of articles and attend motivational courses won’t succeed. Only those who try hard will gain victory. Dreams don’t come with fears. You have to overcome your fear of risking, changing and deciding to get your dream job.
In this article, I want to show you three ways that help you to overcome your fears. Albeit you can’t overcome your fears over a night. It makes you more nervous and stressed, and you’ll lose your ability to decide or make a wrong decision which leads you to a wrong path.
Be patient, and you will be able to overcome your fear after a while.
Also, I need to remind you that risking doesn’t mean doing irrational things. You only need to have enough courage to decide what’s best for you.
1- Start from small things
No one wants to throw away money, but you have to lose something to gain something else.
Let me tell you an example. When you put your money in a bank, you lose the opportunity of spending and enjoying it for a short time because you want the interest of a bank.
You spend some time to run, exercise and sweat because you want to be slim and healthy. So you lose some time and physical energy.
You have to learn a new skill so that you can have a future or teach it to someone else or get your dream job. In this case, you have to spend money and time.
You have to be ready to lose small things to gain bigger victory. If you keep everything (money, time, physical energy, etc.) to yourself, you can’t make any deal, and you won’t get anything in return.
If you see life like this, you won’t be afraid of losing things.
First, you need to ask yourself this question: what are you ready to lose that won’t harm your life balance? For example, does spending five hours a day to learn this skill harm your other activities?
2- Learn before risking
You have to enhance your knowledge before you risk doing something. Knowing too much boosts your self-confidence.
For example, you want to step into the exchange. First, you have to learn everything about it and then decide wisely to invest your money. Albeit knowledge and information are not everything and do not guarantee your victory. Do not hesitate after you learned about your subject or when you lose your opportunity. Always consider a 50-50% situation when you want to get your dream job.
3- Help others who don’t have anything
It may be shocking for you, but it’s true. When you help others especially when you don’t have enough money, your unconsciousness will figure out that you are not poor and disabled as it imagined.