Gives your life a meaning
In one of my classes, I found out that there is a clear difference between people are finding a purpose in life and people who don’t.
The ones who don’t know what they want in life are always trying so hard to gain higher positions and educations.
While people who care about finding a purpose in life, choose their path and walk on it easily and quickly.
The dilemma of finding a purpose in life
Once, I heard from one of my students that he was the second in the university entrance exam. Everyone around him was happy except himself. He said: now I have to go to dorms and work so hard. It means I can’t take good care of myself. These days, my point of view has changed and I don’t see education as a factor to succeed.
I know many of you may have these problems. The main problem is that most people know what do they don’t want but they have no clue what they want. This person who talked to me probably knew he didn’t want to go to university but he didn’t know what he wanted in his life.
One of the most vital things in life which many people haven’t learned and wasted their lifetime at university and school is that they don’t know how to decide and set a goal for themselves!
Do you know how vital finding a purpose in life is? You don’t know the answer? Think about the end of the world. What do you want to leave behind when you are gone?
When you don’t know this stuff, it doesn’t matter whether you are the first person who passed the exam or you are 1000 one. the point is try finding a purpose in life.
What’s the solution?
I think the best solution is to learn a few side-skills. For example, the skill to talent recognition.
I suggest you read “Do What You Are” by Paul D. Tiger.
Then you can go to setting goals. You need to know about finding a purpose in life, “What do you want in general?” and “What is your purpose?”
Also, I suggest you read Brian Tracy’s books about goals and purposes.
Sometimes education is not the right way to get what you want and sometimes it is. First, you need to find out what do you truly want. It doesn’t matter if others blame you for leaving college because no matter what you do, people judge you all the time. they say:
– You were wrong.
– You made a terrible mistake.
– You weren’t thinking straight.
These comments don’t matter as long as you know what your purpose is. If you want to proceed in life based on what others say, you will never grow.
The important thing is that you know about finding a purpose in life and know what do you want to achieve in life and then consult with the experienced and experts.