It is essential to have a proper understanding of the things around us and confront the problems by knowing the problem-solving steps.
In this article, we want to talk about understanding the issue and the fact of how rhetoric can help us in this matter.
You have to find your real purpose. You all know how much I care about being an early bird. I am one. Once, someone told me: Mr. Bahrampoor, I can’t wake up at 5 in the morning like you do. I want to, but I can’t.
I asked him why he wants to wake up at 5 a.m.
He said: “well, to be successful.”
I said: “OK. What do you want to do then?”
He thought for a second and said: “something. I don’t know.”
I said: “dear friend! When you don’t have a proper purpose, how do you expect to wake up at 5 in the morning?”
you have to truly understand if it’s laziness that prevents you from doing stuff or not having a purpose?
2- Your role
You need to accept your part of the play. Do not blame others for what you should do. You don’t have to say there is no job; economics is a problem, etc. So society is the worst, and I am the best? No. many managers want to hire. We have to find out the exact issue in ourselves. You have to accept your responsibility and role in the purpose you have chosen.
3- Write it down.
Write down the purpose and the problem to pass the problem-solving steps easier. First, it has to be precise. For example, “I have a problem with my father, which I need to solve.” Was it clear enough? Absolutely not.
Write the details for yourself.
Rhetoric in problem-solving
Talk clearly. Pay attention to the details and write them down.
Try to use the word “question” instead of “problem.” When you say problem, you imagine a huge obstacle that prevents you from doing anything. But we can always find an answer to our questions.
Instead of saying “It won’t happen…”, use “how can I …” and then take action.
Say “and” instead of “but.” For example, I want to be successful, but I married, and I have kids. It’s not for me anymore.
It’s wrong. A negative idea which stops you and makes you stand wherever you are. You can say: “I want to be successful, and I married, and I have kids.”
I promise you that after these problem-solving steps, you will be a different person and positive energy surrounds you to do the right things to reach your goals.